Reasons Why No One Wants To Have Sex With You

Ever wondered why it’s hard to get laid? Here’s why
no one wants to have sex with you.
Having sex may seem like what everybody is doing
but trust me, there are people out there not getting
any action at all. This may not be entirely because
the person is not attractive enough (although being
attractive is one of the sure ways to get laid. When
you pay attention to yourself, take good care of your
body and always make an effort took your best no
matter where you’re going, people will always
notice you and be interested in you) to get someone
to hook up with; it may because of the following
reasons listed below:
1. You’re Not Approachable:
Being approachable is not the same as being
attractive. You may be the finest person in the room
and still be the loneliest. If you’re not getting
enough sex as you should, ask yourself if you really
“put yourself out there enough” to be approached by
a prospective partner. It is not about wearing
revealing clothes or being overly flirtatious either. It
is about the way you present yourself, interact with
people around you. If you’re rude, aloof and carry
yourself like you’re too good for anybody, you’re
definitely going to have a lot of people running from
you rather than coming to you.

2. Your Expectations:
Sometimes, we are so conscious of our values that
we do not get to actually know a person before we
write them off. Because you often dream about tall,
dark and handsome guys doesn’t mean a short, fair
and cute guy won’t work for you. And of course,
when you’re so rigid about such values, it is very
hard to convince you to change them and then you
will start having people run from you because
you’re centered on meeting a person with specifics
rather than making do with what you have. I’m not
saying it is a terrible thing to want specific things
from someone but sometimes, those rigid values
may end up pushing to the wrong person or to
“lonedom”.

3. Wrong Signals:
When you send out the wrong signals, it is hard for
people to know what you really want or who you
really are. Don’t dress like you’re gay when you’re
not. I mean, when you are dressed like the opposite
sex, complete with boyish haircut and accessories,
people wont definitely see you as someone they can
bang. They will see you as a buddy they can
discuss soccer with over pizza and beer.
You Have Bad Hygiene:
You can’t expect to have a stinking breath and
terrible body odour and think you can get laid.
Clean yourself up nicely, have a good bath, use a
strong deodorant and add a dash of mild cologne
and you’re good to go. Never approach someone
when you stink.
4. You’re All Shades Of Screwed Up:
Having sex to most people means you have to be
committed to that person and once you’re sensed
as the type of person with too many issues, people
will flee from you. If you project yourself as a
depressed, broken, angry young person, no one will
want to come close to you. Until you get your act
together, you will have no one coming to your side
much less having sex with you.
Sometimes, people don’t stay away from you
because of the way you look. Most times, it is about
the way you act, how you present yourself and treat
others around you. In order to get laid or get
someone to be fully interested in you, you have to
work on yourself so you can be at least 80%
acceptable; that’s what makes you attractive the
most to everybody that comes your way.

Share on Google Plus

About Anonymous