“Various sex techniques are important but they
don’t mean much without a deep understanding of
what makes your woman turned on.”
– Anonymous
1. UNDERSTAND YOUR WOMAN
Many men today don’t take time to figure what it is
that their ladies really want. They assume sex is
like a pair of socks or face cap or all such items that
have the ‘one size fits all’ tag. Wrong! For you to
score those awesome points in bed, you need to
know your lady in and out. Take time to ask her
about things that turn her on and find fun ways to
make these things come alive.
There are different strokes for different folks. Some
ladies get turned on by listening to Rock Music,
others get turned on by having mild liquor,
chocolate and stuff. Some others are turned on by
beards and facial hair, others by the smell of male
cologne and bla bla. The onus is on you to discover
her deepest fantasies and go right on to make those
happen.
2. ORAL SEX IS MAGICAL
Men should master the act of giving their women a
proper good sexual feeling by giving ‘the head’. Bite
gently, lick softly, and penetrate the honey pot with
the tongue if you desire to get the bell in her head
ringing.
3. FOCUS ON HER BOOBS
However good your sex game is the moment you
forget to stimulate your woman’s breasts and
nipples, you stand to lose out on the core of things.
Take your time to work her body, let your hands and
tongue be active as crazy. Even when you get under
and penetrate, still maintain contact with the lofty
pair of boobs; cup them, squeeze mildly and tickle
the nipples and be sure to get her to a faster, bigger
orgasm.
4. TALK DIRTY RAW & DIRTY WITH HER
I doubt this requires any explanations for all the
grown folks out there. If in doubt, take a few shots
of your favorite liquor and let things take a natural
order…
5. FIND AND TICKLE HER G-SPOT
Doggy style is your best bet to hitting her G-spot.
But then again there’s a new approach to this: Get
her to lower herself on her elbows instead of her
palms, then thrust in with gentle strokes initially;
and then work it into a faster, rhythmic penetration.
As you get into her like this, you are certain to hit
and stimulate the G-spot.
6. GENTLY BITE HER EAR AND NECK
Her ears and the neck regions beneath them can be
super sensitive, so if you know how to nibble on
these parts you are sure to get her extra in the
zone, and on your way to a great orgasm.
7. TAKE THE LEAD
Many men don’t understand that the phrase ‘ladies
first’ doesn’t apply in all aspects of life, especially
in between the sheets. This is Africa, how do you
expect a lady to make the first move when as a
society we have all the many stereotypes within us?
Not gonna happen! You don’t want the impression
that your woman is a whore, neither does she want
to come off as one; so the simple thing is get in the
driver’s seat and steer the vessel. Easy as ABC!
Women like to be pampered, forget all that feminism
talk you hear on twitter but they really intend for
their men to take ABSOLUTE control of things,
especially in bed. So, initiate the idea; make the
first moves, put your mouth here and there, take her
hands and slide them in and out of places, unbutton
this, unzip that and boom! You already know.
8. TEASE HER BEFORE THE REAL DEAL
It is often said that the anticipation of something is
better than actually getting it. Think of when you
were saving for your first car, your first gold
necklace, your first trip abroad and all that stuff. Do
you remember how it felt as you neared your target?
Do you remember how it made you sleepless during
the night till you finally achieved it and it didn’t
mean so much anymore? Exactly. That’s how sex
also feels. In truth, chances are many guys will
never be able to get their ladies into great, multiple
orgasms. But then again the feeling of getting her
mind build into pleasurable fantasies can be really
great for you and could serve as a catalyst for great
sex.
9. BE PRESENT & EXPLORE POSITIONS
Don’t just take off her clothes and do the pedestrian
stuff every other day. Nah. In popular Twitter
parlance, not every time do missionary, sometimes
have quickie in the kitchen or in the car with seat
reclined, AC and windows up. Banging!
10. READ THIS ALL OVER AGAIN
Now, go out there and have an amazeball
‘sexperience’. Also, if you know anything we have
omitted here, feel free to drop us a comment or two.
Enjoy!
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